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Parenting Autistic Children

What Should Parents Do?

So many unexpected things happen to us in our life. In that cases we don’t even realize how to react. For example- if you’ve recently learned that your child is autistic, you’re probably wondering and worrying about what comes next. The fact is that there is absolutely nothing to be worried over your child’s future because there are so many things parents can do to help children with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD).

Morshedul Alam Mohabat     12 January, 2017 12:00 AM printer

What Should Parents Do?

Learn about autism

The more you know about autism spectrum disorder, the better equipped you’ll be to make informed decisions for your child. Educate yourself about the treatment options, ask questions, and participate in all treatment decisions.


Become an expert on your child

Figure out what triggers your kid’s challenging or disruptive behaviours and what elicits a positive response.

What does your child find stressful or frightening? Calming? Uncomfortable? Enjoyable? If you understand what affects your child, you’ll be better at troubleshooting problems and preventing or modifying situations that cause difficulties.


Accept your child, quirks and all

Rather than focusing on how your autistic child is different from other children and what he or she is “missing,” practice acceptance. Enjoy your kid’s special quirks, celebrate small successes, and stop comparing your child to others. Feeling unconditionally loved and accepted will help your child more than anything else.


Reward good behaviour

Positive reinforcement can go a long way with children with ASD, so make an effort to “catch them doing something good.” Praise them when they act appropriately or learn a new skill, being very specific about what behaviour they’re being praised for. Also look for other ways to reward them for good behaviour, such as giving them a sticker or letting them play with a favourite toy.



Create a home safety zone

Carve out a private space in your home where your child can relax, feel secure, and be safe. This will involve organizing and setting boundaries in ways your child can understand. Visual cues can be helpful (coluored tape marking areas that are off limits, labeling items in the house with pictures). You may also need to safety proof the house, particularly if your child is prone to tantrums or other self-injurious behaviours.


Make time for fun

A child coping with autism is still a child. For both children with ASD and their parents, there needs to be more to life than therapy. Schedule playtime when your child is most alert and awake. Figure out ways to have fun together by thinking about the things that make your child smile, laugh, and come out of her/his shell. Your child is likely to enjoy these activities most if they don’t seem therapeutic or educational. There are tremendous benefits that result from your enjoyment of your child’s company and from your child’s enjoyment of spending unpressured time with you.


Finally, don’t give up. Don’t jump to conclusions about what life is going to be like for your child. Like everyone else, people with autism have an entire lifetime to grow and develop their abilities.