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Expressing gratitude

Khandaker Zia Hasan

    12 January, 2017 12:00 AM printer

Expressing gratitude

Khandaker Zia Hasan

In recent days, we experience that relationships are measured by the worth of gifts presented to one party to another. Children become upset if parents fail to present expensive gifts on their birthdays.

Rich friends become popular easily for their treats and presents. But, we need to teach our children that real worth of gift does not depend on how costly the gift is, but how much love and affection is attached to it. Let’s read a story on it.


Story: Gifts from the heart  


According to legend, a young man while roaming the desert came across a spring of delicious crystal-clear water. The water was so sweet that he filled his leather canteen so he could bring some back to a tribal elder who had been his teacher. After a four-day journey he presented the water to the old man who took a deep drink, smiled warmly and thanked his student lavishly for the sweet water. The young man returned to his village with a happy heart.



Later, the teacher let another student taste the water. He spat it out, saying it was awful. It apparently had become stale because of the old leather container. The student challenged his teacher: “Master, the water was foul. Why did you pretend to like it?”


The teacher replied, “You only tasted the water. I tasted the gift. The water was simply the container for an act of loving-kindness and nothing could be sweeter.”
Message of the story:


I think we understand this lesson best when we receive innocent gifts of love from young children. Whether it’s a ceramic tray or a macaroni bracelet, the natural and proper response is appreciation and expressed thankfulness because we love the idea within the gift.


Gratitude doesn’t always come naturally. Unfortunately, most children and many adults value only the thing given rather than the feeling embodied in it. We should remind ourselves and teach our children about the beauty and purity of feelings and expressions of gratitude. After all, gifts from the heart are really gifts of the heart.
Quote on recognition:


“A gift consists not in what is done or given, but in the intention of the giver or doer.” ~ Lucius Annaeus Seneca.


Dear readers, stay happy & make others happy!  


The writer is a Communication Trainer & Journalist